Saturday, April 7, 2012

Unit 10 Final Blog


1.      Review your unit 3 personal assessment of your psychological, physical, and spiritual     well-being.  Reflect on these areas.  How did you score yourself on a scale from 1 to 10 in unit 3? How do you score yourself now?  Has the score changed? Why or why not?

  I was a 6 in unit 3, and now I would rate it a 7 working to be a 10.  My physical well-being is not a lot better because I have not been able to enroll in a gym yet. School is not out so in the evenings I am not able like I want to walk around the school.  I am able however to exercise with my WII and my walk DVD, which I am doing. 

I rated my spiritual well-being in unit 3 as an 8 and not I rate it as 8.5 because I have been reading more in the mornings and on my breaks.  As I stated before I would not rate it ever as a 10 because there would be no room for improvement.  When you reach the top in spiritual development where can you go?  It is not like anything physical. 

In unit 3 I rated my psychological well-being as a 4 because I was having trouble blogging and I was stressed with other personal matters.  Now I rate psychological well-being as a 6 and still moving forward.  I have learned so much from the class and it helps me to stay calm by practicing breathing exercises and subtle mind practices and especially the loving-kindness.  It makes me show more love and compassion toward others.  Before I was so absorbed in my own problems until I could not see anything else.  It was an awakening!

2.       Review the goals and activities you set for yourself in each area.  Have you made progress toward the goals? Explain.

Goal for exercise was to replace my WII and get my DVD fixed.  I have replaced my WII and fixed my DVD so now I am able to get up in the mornings and perform exercises.  I have made progress because I have been walking in the mall and working in my garden, and performing more physical activities than before.

Spiritually I do meditate on gratefulness before jumping out of bed every morning.  I have also begun to meditate and pray more at night so that I will not suffer from insomnia.  I am not traumatized now, more relaxed.

Psychologically I have learned that I made mistakes but do not dwell on them, keep moving, forgive and let it go.  I find myself not blaming others, but making excuses for them for why they reacted the way they did.  I also had a goal to have more quiet time and I have accomplished that, by just sitting in my chair and closing my eyes and visualize being in a tropical island with peace and tranquility.  I am learning to train my mind by practicing the Subtle Mind, loving-kindness and more prayer and meditation.   (Dacher, 2006) 

I have made progress on the loving-kindness, I am a person that normally shows loving-kindness, but I had some losses in my family, some traumatic things that happened and school has taken a lot of my time which has made me like a hermit.  My family time, social, physical and spiritual life was suffering. 

3.      Have you implemented the activities you chose for your well-being in each of the three areas? Explain.



I have made great progress, I have come alive now.  The reason I know I have implemented the activities because I feel much better about myself and I have better sleeping habits, and better conversations with my family. I am able to implement loving-kindness in psychospiritual and spiritual by not being so impatient and always in a hurry. I participated in a Passover Seder on Good Friday and it was tremendously spiritual.  I learned about the 7 days of creation being explained in a thought provoking and spiritual way.  The first day of creation was loving-kindness and Passover always being 14 Nisan according to the Jewish calendar and teaching. 

With my physical area I am always moving doing things and I need to settle down more.  By the end of this writing I have joined a gym!  Yea! I am also doing my exercises at home with my Nintendo WII and Walk DVD.   



4.     Summarize your personal experience throughout this course.  Have you developed improved well-being?  What has been rewarding?  What has been difficult?  How will this experience improve your ability to assist others?



My personal experience in the beginning was anger, feeling alone, trying to find inner peace and trying to figure out how to keep things together.  Now, since reading Integral Health by Elliott S. Dacher, has brought to my mind about the spiritual teaching my spiritual leader has taught me through the years.  I now understand why they are so important to practice. I have practiced how to settle the mind through the Subtle Mind practices. I have learned, developed and been rewarded with integral principles of inner development, renewed loving-kindness, renewed virtue, and understand how to treat each person with individuality, to be responsible for my own development, and you must seek information from others so I can be a better mentor or helper for my clients and myself.   I must practice what I preach so I will be able to understand contemplative practices and integral health.  With the integral health and contemplative practices I will be able to help flourish others to a healthy life, filled with happiness, and wholeness and health.  (Dacher, 2006)

Dacher, E.S. (2006). Integral health: the path to human flourishing. Laguna Beach, Ca: Basic Health Publications, Inc.
Have a great Summer!
~Retta